What Matters in our program

Our program is built around a few simple philosophies: Relationships matter. Trust matters. Specificity matters. Repetition matters. Showing up matters. Process matters. Numbers matters. Showing up matters. Referrals are the natural byproduct of working the process with the right people—over and over again. Don’t overcomplicate what we do.  Networking shouldn’t just create contacts. It should…

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Need to Delegate…that is a good sign!

One of my go-to voices every week is the Harvey Mackay newsletter.  I saw him speak at conference 20 years ago.  The MacKay 66 program is a fundamental part of how repetition, specificity, & process matters so much in The Referrals Group. Recently he wrote an article about delegating.  Delegating is one of my weaknesses. …

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4 Tips as we enter the fall

1- Goal on referrals….3 way text is king!     Referral close %’s by how we connect: text:  53% *put them on a 3 way text email:  37% phone:  22% other/social:  12% *if box is check “No” on permission to contact 7% 2- Get more aggressive in inviting -Fall is typically a big guest time frame.  People start…

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Micro Avoidance Stalls Success

Micro Avoidance Stalls Success: Print/PDF for AV Screen Stanford research shows that micro-avoidance—the tiny habit of dodging temporary awkwardness, hard tasks, or tough feedback—gradually stalls your long-term success. On the flip side, leaning into discomfort as a sign of progress boosts motivation and keeps you moving forward. Why Avoiding Discomfort Hurts The Micro-Avoidance Trap: Small…

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Try the “Two and Two” Face-to-Face meeting format

Try the “Two and Two” Face-to-Face   At your next face-to-face meeting with another group member, try this simple framework: 1-Bring 2 Specific Requests: Ask for two distinct favors they can do for you. Ex. 1:  Write a Google review for your business. Ex. 2:  Send an intro text to a Real Estate Broker in their…

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Recent Philosophical Favorites

I don’t usually do the whole inspirational quote thing, but I’ve always appreciated perspective from people I respect—either because they’re masters of their craft or because they’re close to me.   While I firmly believe discipline trumps motivation every single time, we all need a little kickstart now and then. Here are a few favorites that…

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Giving More Referrals, Just One More Question

Printable PDF: Giving More Referrals Just One More Question At Papa Diamonds barber shop in Lexington there are constantly old TV shows on.  One that seems to have been on a lot when I get my haircut this year is Columbo.  My grandfather used to watch it, Gunsmoke, and Matlock, so much Matlock.    Columbo,…

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Almost 1/2 point of year…take a moment to reflect & give thanks

We’re halfway through the year. Take a moment and think about the year to date -who has made a real impact on your business this year? Not just referrals, but conversations, advice, introductions, who supported you, and which referrals and introductions gained traction, generated business, and resulted in spinoff referrals. Thank them. Let them know…

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5 Power Habits that are E-A-S-Y to Implement in your Group

1- Add 10 minutes a month on your calendar to: -Review your sent/received referrals – Look at your sent that haven’t closed, reach out to the member who received the referral & ask “How is it going with this (name/company/family) referral?” -vice versa for your received.  *if closed add revenue (or $0 if it is…

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Officer transitions- Process for groups transitioning July 1

The majority of our groups transition the chairperson role on either January 1 or July 1.   Here is a quick guide on the process & role.  I also recommend checking your bylaws prior to proceeding. Typical process for new officer selection Nomination process:  @last meeting in November or first meeting in December (or last of…

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Hidden Elements to running a great meeting

There are alot of “hidden elements” to running an energetic, professional, & intentional meeting.  When we run high quality meetings it adds value.  Here are just a few of the key hidden elements Pre Meeting -laminated agendas on table The Referrals Group Meeting Agenda -referral report (since last meeting) up on TV/AV screen I also suggest…

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